Dear People of Washington, D.C. -
It's not that I don't appreciate the support, really I do. I'm sure there are lots of people out there who wouldn't. But as a parent, I realize I'm not the cat's meow and I could use all the help I can get. So let me be the first to say thank you for all the observations and advice you've offered over the past week since the weather has turned a bit chillier. But here's something to think about before you stop that lady on the street to tell her the baby in the stroller she's pushing is terribly underdressed for the weather and will freeze to death if she doesn't put a hat and socks on the baby as soon as possible:
Alice
It's not that I don't appreciate the support, really I do. I'm sure there are lots of people out there who wouldn't. But as a parent, I realize I'm not the cat's meow and I could use all the help I can get. So let me be the first to say thank you for all the observations and advice you've offered over the past week since the weather has turned a bit chillier. But here's something to think about before you stop that lady on the street to tell her the baby in the stroller she's pushing is terribly underdressed for the weather and will freeze to death if she doesn't put a hat and socks on the baby as soon as possible:
- perhaps she has tried to put socks on the baby
- perhaps she has tried to put a hat on the baby
- perhaps she has tried to put mittens on the baby
- perhaps the baby is wearing warm clothing and a sweater
- perhaps she is only going down the street a couple of blocks and will be back inside before the baby even notices it is cold out
- perhaps she has three pairs of socks, two hats, a pair of mittens and a pair of shoes in that giant bag she's slung over her shoulder and she is just sick of bending over to pick one of them up from the pavement every five seconds as the baby yanks them off and drops them to the ground
- perhaps she knows that a blanket would suffer the same fate and it's just not worth it
- perhaps she knows it's a tad bit chilly, but she was born in North Dakota and she knows what real cold is and this ain't it
- perhaps it is 60 degrees and the wind is not blowing and there's not a cloud in the sky
- perhaps you are all cold weather wussies who need to mind your own business
Alice
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October 25, 2008 at 7:53 AM
Hmmmmm....which one do we get to pick and be close?
October 25, 2008 at 10:57 AM
Lol. Love this post!
October 25, 2008 at 12:48 PM
Isn't that the freakin' truth. cause everybody knows better than the lady with the baby.
Here's what happened to me.
My baby has an ear infection. I took her to the Dr to get antibiotics and make sure everything else was okay. We're good just fluid in the ear making her a cranky girl. Keep away from smoke, cover ears outdoors, etc.
Since baby cannot go back to daycare, we run through Sam's. We're going through and come across a sample lady-it's fish, so we grab some. Baby throws a weird little fit and I explain she has an ear infection to cover her bad behavior. The old hag goes on to ask if anyone smokes in the house. "Oh heavens no! Thankfully!" She says "Well you should get some one who smokes and blow it in her ear. Clear it right up!"
I now ignore comments from strangers--just smile and nod.
October 25, 2008 at 4:16 PM
Blow it in her ear? Now that sounds familiar.
October 25, 2008 at 9:38 PM
LOOOOOOOOVE IT! You know how I feel when people tell me how to take care of baby. Bite 'em.
October 26, 2008 at 7:07 AM
I think I know of the day of which you are speaking. Personally, I thought she had plenty on. (Not that I was or would offer my opinion.) It's not like it was 40 below out. (Scratch that. If it was 40 below and a blizzard, I might. Otherwise, I won't.) I mean, truth be told, I think the three of us were a bit overdressed for that particular day and the Caterpillar had the right idea!
October 26, 2008 at 9:04 AM
@lucy: Actually you can pick any of them and be right.
@Ats: Thanks. What is the internet for if not for others to derive amusement from our frustrations?
@mucho: I've heard of that blow smoke in their ear solution to everything from ear infections to gall stones. I'm surprised some company hasn't come up with specialized cigarettes just for medicinal purposes.
@fourney: I like your attitude!
@tewkesbury: Yes, that day four people stopped me on the way to lunch. But every day this week at least two people have said something to me at some point about her being underdressed. I'm starting to think I'm being punk'd.
October 26, 2008 at 10:35 AM
Oh, the socks! Why won't people lay off the socks! Davis NEVER keeps his shoes and socks on and the comments get sooo tiring.
October 26, 2008 at 6:26 PM
@Beth: I KNOW! What is everyone's obsession with socks?
October 26, 2008 at 8:05 PM
Funny, I met that same crazy lady when I was buying some monistat. You can guess what she told me.
October 26, 2008 at 8:06 PM
And SHOES!? WHY IS IT ALWAYS THE SHOES!?
October 26, 2008 at 8:07 PM
@Anon: I know who you are. So tell me. Do these shoes make my feet look fat?