When you marry someone, you don't necessarily know if that person will make a good parent or not. Sure, you have an idea but actually being a parent... day in, day out... is a whole lot different than how much you like kids or whether you think you might be a good parent. How lucky are these girls (as am I) then, that he actually did turn out to be a great Dad?
If you're lucky, you find someone to share your life with who fills in some of the gaps where you leave off. If you're really lucky, that person fills in the gaps when and where you need it most. Sure there are times when I want to beat him like a yard dog. For example, when he's noticed that he accidentally dropped some spaghetti sauce on the living room rug and his method of cleaning it up is to stomp his boot into the stain and rub it into the carpet. But then there are times I sit back and notice that I happen to be one of those lucky people who is part of a team of parents and am not just the caretaker of his progeny. That almost makes up for the spaghetti sauce incident... almost.
Edited to add: For Josh:
If you're lucky, you find someone to share your life with who fills in some of the gaps where you leave off. If you're really lucky, that person fills in the gaps when and where you need it most. Sure there are times when I want to beat him like a yard dog. For example, when he's noticed that he accidentally dropped some spaghetti sauce on the living room rug and his method of cleaning it up is to stomp his boot into the stain and rub it into the carpet. But then there are times I sit back and notice that I happen to be one of those lucky people who is part of a team of parents and am not just the caretaker of his progeny. That almost makes up for the spaghetti sauce incident... almost.
Edited to add: For Josh:
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November 3, 2008 at 11:40 AM
awww, that's awesome. you are one lucky girl.
November 3, 2008 at 9:03 PM
Don't you think it's a weird coincidence that 3 members of this family have birthdays within a day of each other?
November 3, 2008 at 9:04 PM
Happy Birthday, KoH!
November 3, 2008 at 9:25 PM
Happy B-Day... we sent you an e-card but to Alice's email (we don't have yours). Hope you get it!
The one Alice sent was funny :)
November 3, 2008 at 10:17 PM
Sounds to me like you got very lucky. :-)
November 4, 2008 at 5:43 AM
@jen & chris: Awww thanks. However I'm afraid publishing this post has done nothing for his humility.
@paws & vetsac: In the KoH's family everyone's birthday is on the 12th of some month. So we always know it's SOMEone's birthday, just not who.
November 6, 2008 at 7:04 PM
I don't know if you're a Photoshop person, but this picture would look awesome with the faces in graytone or sepia and just the orange sweatshirt in its original color.
November 6, 2008 at 11:39 PM
@josh: Cool idea for this picture! Here you go. But if you have a better way to do it, let me know.
November 11, 2008 at 9:12 PM
Very cool except now she looks like the Unibomber.
November 11, 2008 at 9:13 PM
November. Also known as: the month I always forget it's Koh's birthday.